A few thoughts from our clinic visits.

I feel as though we’re in a pretty good place.  We may not know exactly how to address the issues we see but I think we’re getting close.  As we all know, how to treat an issue varies greatly from individual to individual.   I think we have come quite a long way this year in figuring out what doesn’t work, which has value.  We’re narrowing down the multitude of options and based on what we’ve been seeing from Monkey, we are making progress.

Thursday was our OT/PT evaluation and our meeting with the developmental pediatrician who is supervising Monkey’s medication.  We sat down with the OT and the PT and chatted for a while about our impressions of Monkey, what concerns us, what the school does and what we do at home.  Using our tips on deep pressure (and some assistance from Eggy) they were able to get Monkey to complete the Peabody evaluation.

We’ll get a much more detailed report in the next week or two but we did sit down briefly to discuss their “impressions.”  They were very pleased with his progress.  He was cutting and using markers in ways he was not able to do last year.  He was problem-solving.  The OT demonstrated a lace-up activity, Monkey replicated the activity but not on the first attempt.  When he looked at what he’d done he knew, without being told, that it wasn’t right.  He took it apart and fixed it.  Very, very impressive.

They were able to see the huge benefits that Monkey gets from deep pressure.  The PT held Monkey on her lap and squeezed Monkey tightly while the OT demonstrated activities ((Face-to-face, not side-by-side, which impresses me even more considering these were both complete strangers to Monkey and he’d been crying when we left him there to do the evaluations alone.)).  His ability to attend to the activity was greatly improved.  It took them a little trial and error to start but once they made the connection it worked amazingly well.  The PT would loosen her grip on him so he could complete the tasks.

Suggestions that came from the visit:

  1. Under Armor (wear under his clothes to school)
  2. Sensory interventions should be accessible to Monkey (they suggested a bag hanging over the back of his assigned chair where they could keep his wrist weights or chewy tubes within easy reach)
  3. One staff member should be identified for Monkey for requesting sensory interventions.

The second part of Thursday’s evaluation was more of a medication review than a true evaluation.  First, the Dr. was very impressed with Monkey’s IEP.  He loved the social goals but is concerned that 1. there is no specified person to supervise/target his social skills, it’s all just “throughout the day” and 2. that there is no board certified behavioral analyst anywhere on his team.  He is going to suggest that Monkey may need a one-on-one aide to target social skills but I think Duhdee and I are leaning towards keeping the staffing the same but pursuing some outside social skills therapy.  This is the exact class type we wanted, I’m not ready to throw up our hands before school starts!

We also decided to make some changes to Monkey’s medications/supplements which was not unexpected.  He has been taking A.dderall plus we’ve been supplementing with l-acetyl carnitine and folic acid.  Both the folic acid and the l-acetyl carnitine were geared towards the ADHD and attention.  We never really saw any major improvements with the l-acetyl carnitine.  It’s been about a year and we still ended up having to pursue a prescription for the ADHD so that is done.  We did, however, see improvements after a few months on the folic acid…way back when.  We’re going to keep that for now but we will revisit it down the road.

The A.dderall is a different situation.  We did see gains when we started on the R.italin and those gains have been maintained on the A.dderall *but* Monkey’s sleep is a problem once again.  He is frequently waking in the middle of the night and unable to fall back asleep.  This makes life very troublesome for him.  While we were talking to the Dr. he asked if this is how Monkey is on the A.dderall…it would have been massively impressive if we could have said yes because he was sitting very quietly in his chair.  I, unfortunately, had to point out that Monkey was very nearly falling asleep sitting up.  He was doing those 10 second blinks and rubbing his eyes trying desperately to stay awake.

I broached the subjects of anxiety and the mega-melatonin dose he’s on and the Dr. decided that we should stop the A.dderall.  Huh.  He wants to figure out if it’s the A.dderall that is causing the sleep issue or not.  I wasn’t 100% sure about this plan but he has way more experience than I do, lol, so we’ll go with it.  He also wants to keep the melatonin in place for now but maybe do a drug holiday after a couple of weeks without the A.dderall potentially interfering. OK.

Then on Friday, we met with Dr. Picker and Sharyn Lincoln (if you’ve met them you’ll know why this is always our favorite part of the clinic!).  They were both at the conference and we’d sat in on a couple sessions that overlapped.  It was nice to be able to refer to the sessions as we discussed Monkey and what direction to go from here.  The short version is that, at the team meeting, Dr. Picker was going to suggest we switch to T.enex to simultaneously treat the ADHD and the sleep issues.  We should hear the team decision within the next week and we’ll implement the new plan.  Yay!  The whole time we were talking (probably an hour) Monkey played with his “Cars” matchbox cars.  He stood by Dr. Picker and even used him as leverage to climb onto the exam table so he could play with all the interesting medical equipment on the wall.

So, to sum up.  He’s making gains in every area but he’s falling further behind in play/social behaviors.  His attentional issues are a concern.  His poor sleep is a concern.   We have identified a medication that should help with both.  And, of course, Monkey rocks…but we didn’t need a clinic visit to learn that!

Borrring!

That pretty much sums up the last week or so.  After a busy July, we went into hibernation mode here at Chez Monkey.  We’ve been bored and boring, gotta love that!  It’s not often families like ours get to indulge in doing NOTHING!

Our hibernation period is over though.  It was killed by guilt and a return of reality. The guilt is, of course, mine.  It suddenly occurred to me that Monkey is on summer break ((Finally!)) and we have done nothing to amuse him in…days!  I am such an awful mom!  I’ve been torturing him by making him stay at home and amuse himself.  I suck 😉  SO, our “do nothing” weekends are over.  It’s time for the activity director to break out the heavy artillery.  We’re talking train rides, walks on the beach and trips to the zoo…maybe even some ice cream cones and bumper boats.  That will all make me feel better and give me something to b*tch about here when it blows up in my face.  Win/win.

The other bit, the return of reality, is less fun.  First, it’s time for our annual visit to the Fragile X clinic at Children’s Hospital in Boston.  That right there is a solid 3 hours of good old fashioned Fragile X fun.  We have to discuss the whole ADHD medication thing.  We saw some improvements when we started but whenever we try to increase the dosage at all we get lots of side-effects and a loss of the improvements.  It occurred to us, while we were sitting in one of the sessions at the conference, that we maybe should be looking at anxiety over ADHD or at least anxiety in addition to the ADHD.  I don’t know.   It’s a discussion.  Otherwise, I’m pretty darned happy with Monkey’s development.

The other piece of the return to reality is that although summer break has just really started for Monkey, it doesn’t last long.  We only have a smidge over 3 weeks until Monkey goes back to school and we are starting from scratch once again.  New school, new classroom, new teacher, new aides, new classmates, new therapists, new therapy rooms, new cafeteria, new playground, new commute, new e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g.  And that is always so exciting and positive for Monkey.  *Ahem*

Over the weekend we all drove to his new school to play on the playground.  We thought it would be a fun/non-threatening introduction to the building.  We didn’t want to just take him straight inside because the only other time he was in that building he had a hissy fit ((Duhdee and I were at a parent’s meeting and left Monkey with the free childcare…big mistake.  The provider was actually a familiar person but Monkey did not enjoy the experience.  At all.)).  We played on the playground, they have a very cool water park feature that will be turned off when school starts ((Monkey is not going to like that, lol.)), and I video taped all of it…the trip and the playing…once he stopped freaking out about being in a new place.  Srsly, what parents have to force their children to go to a playground??  Anyone else??  *Sigh*

So with that fun experience in mind we decided to meet with Monkey’s new teacher in his new classroom.  It was really, really hard for him to walk through the door to the classroom, I think it took about 45 minutes for him to manage it.  We sat with the teacher at a table for another 45 minute so he could explore on his own after that and he seemed to enjoy himself.  He’d brought 3 Matchbox cars with him and he played on the rug where they’ll do circle time after he did a few circuits of the room.

The teacher has said we can come back again whenever we want.  We’ll probably take another trip or two in the next weeks.  There will also be two days when school will be in session and the room will be fully set up but *before* the kindergartners start officially and all of the kids in the class have been invited to stop in to visit.  Basically, a 2 day open house.  We’ll be there both days, most likely.  We really, really, really want him ready to learn that first day if at all possible.

Tonight we need to get started editing all the videotape we’ve gathered over the last two visits ((We even had the poor teacher tape a quick greeting, lol)) and create a video for Monkey to watch.  It will show everything from when he walks out the door of our house until he walks into his new classroom.  If anyone has suggestions on songs for a soundtrack that would be super. I don’t really listen to music and this is killing me.  We can’t leave the natural soundtrack because Monkey was whining just about the entire time, of course, lol.

This should really be two posts, just warning you.

It’s a longun’. 

After our last appointment with the developmental pediatrician we’ve decided that the medication we’ve been monkeying (ha! I crack me up) around with for the last few months is not The One.  We’ve switched to a new generic stimulant medication but not F.ocalin which had been the plan.  Why?  Because my insurance company won’t pay for it unless we can prove we’ve tried everything else.  So. 

Monkey took the new medication on Saturday and had a very emotional day but Saturday was also a day of shopping and birthday partying so that could very well be why he was having trouble.   We skipped the medication on Sunday morning because HE SLEPT UNTIL TEN AM!!! (Although, he did wake up at 2 AM and then again at 6:30 AM and I wasn’t able to fall back asleep that second time so it did me no good but this isn’t all about me, now is it?  So, Yay for Monkey for sleeping in!)  And then we skipped the medication on Sunday afternoon because.  What, you need a reason?

He is taking the medication again today.  We’ll see what difference we see from Saturday if anything.  If it *is* working and the emotional fragility is not a problem in two weeks we’ll increase the dose.  If it is not working as hoped in two weeks we’ll stop and revisit the issue with the Dr. 

About that birthday party…we went and Monkey decided after about 20 minutes that it was just too hot to party and he went home.  Fortunately, the party was for Cupcake, the little girl next door, so going home was an option for him.  Being a responsible parent, I went home with him.  He did eventually decide he would return to the party for…cake, of course.  He had one bite of cake and then our little Bug Whisperer thought it was a good idea to pet a bee.  That was, in fact, not a good idea.  It was the first time he’d ever been stung and he exclaimed “Hot!” and then burst into tears.  We went home.  Again. 

I gave him some ibuprofen and then I waited nervously for any allergic reaction.  The good news is that Monkey is not allergic to bees.  It is good information to have though I do wish we’d been able to discover it in another manner.  Ten minutes later, Monkey was totally fine but my paranoia has no such limits…which means that when he slept in until 10 AM on Sunday I had to restrain myself from going to check on him every 5 minutes in case it was the result of some delayed allergic reaction.  I restrained myself until 10 AM and then woke him up when I couldn’t stand it any longer.  I didn’t mean to wake him up, I just wanted to check his temperature and make sure his finger wasn’t swollen…oops.  But, it was 10 AM so, come on!  We can’t lay in bed all day!

Sunday afternoon a friend came for a visit.  She hadn’t seen Monkey in a while so there were lots of changes since the last time.  His language is clearer, he was social (for him…which means he stayed in the same room with us while we talked and drank wine) and was he pretty calm.  He didn’t stumble across a single inappropriate YouTube video and he used his best manners.  Uh, except for one little slip after dinner when he apparently forgot we had a guest and came strolling through the dining room clad only in a pair of SpongeBob’s.  Oopsie!  He had either forgotten that she was there or he did it entirely on purpose because he thinks it’s funny to mess with us.  It’s really hard to tell but given the way he was smirking…I’m leaning toward the latter.  Punk.

We are an anomaly, but we are not crazy.

We visited with the developmental pediatrician this morning.  I spent last night poring over the daily reports we get from the teacher.  I had been a little worried that maybe we were only seeing a change because we expected to, you know?  I always second guess myself 🙂

Our daily reports are a chart, Monkey is rated on a scale of 1-4 on his participation and his regulation for each part of the day.  Participation captures things like how focused he was and how on topic his words and actions were.  Regulation captures his flapping or other stimming and his emotional stability.

So, we get two numbers for circle time, art, gym/playground…even lunch.  A 1 means he is participating or regulated 0-25%, 2 is 25-50%, 3 is 50-75% and 4 is 75-100%.  The teacher also has space to fill in details about what they were doing during each period and how he reacted to it.  It’s an awesome tool, our Ed. Advocate is brilliant.

I used the numbers to get an average of how he did before he started medication, when we were on the 2x a day med, when we were on the XR med and how he’s done since.  Then I charted them because I’m visual like that.  And we get this:

OMG, living with a geek has rubbed off! 

I did not realize how much he had improved, even on the XR formula.  I think his teacher would be surprised too.   I also expected his regulation to drop off more sharply than it did.  I’m thinking that his negative behaviors (whining, jumpiness, racing around) were so much more noticeable that we focused on them more and didn’t recognize that he was making progress still.

So.  The last time we doubled the dose and switched to XR, we’ve decided to keep the higher dose but try the 2x/day formula again to see if we see less of the side effects.  The Dr. told us that he has seen another boy that reacted to the XR formula just this way.  His theory is that some kids need that sudden jolt of medication to calm their bodies down, that the slower time release just doesn’t have enough kick.

We’ll gather more data and go back in another month to discuss the results.  If we’re still seeing the side effects on the 2x/day formula we’ll probably switch to Focalin.  My insurance company doesn’t like to pay for Focalin because it’s so much more expensive but I think we’ll have a good case for it if we try this and it doesn’t work.  *Fingers Crossed*

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Also, (yeah, there’s more) the teacher’s notes on his daily chart noted a “significant decrease” in eye contact when the XR release started and an increase in off-topic language.  In looking at them I noticed an increase in the number of comments that he was emotional or distracted and a change in how she described them.  We went from “a little” emotional or distracted to “very.”

Tomorrow…

Tomorrow morning we have yet another follow-up appointment with our developmental pediatrician.  We’re going to have to tell him that…oh, wait…did I forget to mention this?  We stopped giving him the medication weeks ago. 

Once we switched from the initial twice a day formula to the extended release formula all the benefits seemed to die off and a major drawback emerged.  Monkey was noticeably less focused in group activities and very, very, very, emotional.  He would sometimes cry to the point of nearly vomiting.  Not good.  So, we stopped.

I have lots of information I need to put into my excel spreadsheet so I can graph it for the doctor.  I guess I better get started on that.  I can’t believe I may be pulling an all-nighter ((See!  NOT a grown-up :-()).  *Sigh*

We’re having doubts about the medication.

When we first started Monkey on the R*italin we saw a really big improvement in his eye contact.  The teachers noticed the increased eye contact as well and also noticed that his speech was more on topic.  We were all very excited. 

We did notice that he was having a bit of a down period right before his 2nd dose and so, at our one month follow-up visit, we switched to the extended release formula.  We also increased the dosage.  We made the switch over April vacation and since then we, and the teachers, have noticed that the benefits we were seeing before have faded.  He’s making less eye contact and he’s more distractible.  On top of that, he’s been very emotional. 

Very emotional.  To the point that we have been staying home as much as humanly possible to avoid the whining and out-right meltdowns on outings.  He starts whining about going home the second we get in the truck and when we return he’s a mess.  When I get home in the evenings he loses his *mind* within 30 seconds of me walking through the door because I haven’t changed into my pajamas (yoga pants, fortunately.)  Even *if* I’m in the process of walking from the front door to the bedroom to change. 

I mentioned yesterday that he was a mess on Saturday while we were party shopping.  It wasn’t just the idea of a party that was upsetting him, it was the very fact that we were not home.  It has been rather unpleasant and getting worse, it seems. 

On Sunday, we skipped the medication.  We saw about the same eye contact as on Saturday, which was less than what we used to see.  We also saw a much happier little man.  We went to the nursery to get plants for the window boxes and the hanging planter, he did amazingly well.  He wasn’t whining.  In fact, I heard more than a few giggles.  When we got home Duhdee’s parents were there visiting with Great Grampy and Monkey did really, really well with them.  He played ball with them in the yard for quite a long time and he even gave hugs when they left.

We decided we were going to skip his medication today to see what the teacher’s report.  We didn’t tell them.  Duhdee will mention it after school to see if they noticed any differences.  I’m pretty sure they are going to tell us he had a good day.  He was having a much better morning than he has been.  He seemed less anxious.  If that holds true for the rest of the day we’re going to have to talk to the doctor about switching again.  *Sigh.*

Follow-up visit.

This morning we had a follow-up visit with the developmental pediatrician who has prescribed Monkey’s medication. 

He looked at the weekly reports that the teacher has been filling out.  He was impressed with the depth of information that his teacher provides, she adds explanatory notes rather than just rating Monkey on a scale of 1 to 3.  He asked us what we’ve seen at home and it matches up with what the school has seen.  Monkey is making more sustained eye contact and his verbalizations are clearer, more on topic and he’s combining them in new and longer variations.

Monkey hasn’t exhibited any reactions to the medication.  He is, at times, more emotional at transitions but not terribly so.  He’s still sleeping well, except for this week because he has a cold and wakes up coughing at least twice a night, ugh.

We had him on a “tiny” dose, we’re going to double it and switch to the extended release formula.  We didn’t start with the extended release form because it’s a capsule rather than a pill and we needed to split the pills.  Next week is April vacation week so we’ll have lots of time to observe him for any changes in behavior or appetite. 

Though the changes we have seen are not earth shattering they are worth celebrating.  The increased eye contact has been particularly nice, I didn’t realize how little true eye contact he made with us until we saw the change.  It still startles us at times to find him looking at us so intently when we are talking or playing.  I’m excited to see what happens next!

Yet another update on Monkey’s progress.

Monkey had 4 days of school last week.  The comments we received from the teacher were consistent throughout the week.  She said:

  • his speech is increased
  • he is more attentive
  • he is still as distractible
  • he is still impulsive

So…we achieved the two main goals we had in starting the stimulant but didn’t address the two main issues we thought were holding him back.  Weird, eh?  I’m not sure what to do with this info.

Other things that were in the note or were mentioned at pick up were that:

  • he sat at a table and did FIVE puzzles one after the other.  One, he hates puzzles and two, he hates sitting…so this is no small feat.  She commented that once he was done, he was done.  But, c’mon…FIVE puzzles?  I suspect that he did all the puzzles on the table (they usually have 4 or 5 out depending on the size of the table they’re using) and objected when they added new ones and who can blame him?  They were changing the rules mid-game!
  • he has started SINGING along with the other kids rather than just doing the hand gestures.  I should ask them to record this because, frankly, I am having trouble believing this one.
  • he hates going to the school nurse, even when he takes a friend.  Just wait until she starts trying to take his blood pressure and isn’t just giving him a spoonful of his very favorite yogurt.  We’ve warned them…it won’t be pretty.  I’m afraid we may see a repeat of the effects of the “Ill Advised Halloween Costume of Aught-Seven.”

And, from today, his OT noted SIGNIFICANTLY IMPROVED attention during his OT session!  Nice.

Conclusions: Uncertain.

Monkey had his first day of school now that he’s taking the stimulant.  Today is probably a very bad day to expect anything due to the time change.  We had to PRY his little bottom out of his bed this morning at 7:30!  He never sleeps to 7:30!

Anyway, the teacher reported at pickup that he was very distractable during the morning as he was most of last week.  She also noted that he was making increased eye contact (is this really a sign that it’s working??) and that after lunch (and his 2nd dose) he was much more focused.

So, again the results are a mixed bag.  Is it working?  I think maybe?  It hasn’t turned him into a Monkey on speed so I guess it isn’t NOT working.

To be continued…(ad nauseam, I’m sure 😉 )